Rejoinder : Were Women Better Off In The Past

Looking for the perfect compatibility - thinking, education, career, values integrity, etc. is searching for needle in a haystack. Majorly Indian marriages are arranged over few meetings. It's difficult to ascertain mindsets and predict eventualities or behavioural pattern, attitudes accuratel, in few sittings. Because both parties have put best foot forward and nobody discusses unpleasant or controversial issues, if they are out to clinch the deal.. Even if it's discussed you can never be assured of the honesty, because people may go back on their word, post marriage. So luck plays a crucial part here. There's no guarantee what we're getting into, it's only as good as it gets.