Potty Trained Almost 4 Year Old Peed In Class...help!

Op, Don't worry this is more common than you know. Has your daughter seen anything scary or fallen down somewhere. If she has seen scary soothe her and assure her during bedtime with some stories. Next if she has fallen down take her to the doctor and tell all her symptoms. They will be able to give suitable advice.

I know my niece used to bed wet for some time when she was small. We didn't realize until it was a few months that her fall from swing had contributed to it. The doctor gave her the right advice and medicine and now she is fine.Good Luck.Do post how she is doing.

 

Don't attach too much significance to it. It was an accident. That's all.

Sometimes in school kids get carried away doing activities or playing and they don't realise until it's too late that they need the loo.

Tell her that she needs to try going to the loo periodically. Eg..before snack time , after circle time etc. Ask her teacher to remind her for a few days.

You might want to get a human body book from the library and explain how the kidneys process all the water in the body and fill the bladder little by little. Sometimes when the bladder is only half full, she doesn't feel the need to run to the toilet but still can go. however once the bladder fills up fully, it makes her have an accident.

Usually at that age toilet trained kids freeze when a little accident starts. Reassure her it could happen to anyone who doesn't go to the loo often enough.

For bedtime, take her once in the night - set an alarm for it. If she comes to your bed, you need to consistently take her back.

 

Its totally up to you. I know families where they cosleep and all is fine.

It doesn't suit us - my child sleeps better when undisturbed. Our late night movie watching on screens will disturb her. Plus e wake up early and that disturbs her too. So she sleeps alone as it's better for her.