Planned For Kids Late

How does it matter MA how one is going to have kids.
There are two kinds of problems .
1) One you have control over
2) One you cannot have control over.

From your posts I observe that you seem to be worrying about the non existing imaginary problems which may happen and even if it happens you have no control over it.
The world is a much beautiful place than you have imagined it to be . Nobody will talk ( at least in front of your face ) whether this is treatment baby or a baby born out of having natural sex. Who can talk like that. Behind your back if they talk what proof u have they have told a certain thing . Whoever is telling you these rumours is someone you should cut contact immediately. Seriously they are like bacteria who will harm you and do you no good.

I think you should stop worrying for you cannot control /avoid that so called accusations.

Even if someone falsely say this is fertility treatment baby ask them on their face how does it even bother them.?
If they don't ask which is most likely the case then be happy. It's well and good .

 

why are you embarrassed about fertility treatments? There is nothing wrong in that! There is no trophy for parents who have kids naturally, or by fertility or by adoption or by surrogate. Change your mindset this problem will not remain a problem. "How to avoid this situation and fake accusations" - it is not a crime to get fertility treatment then why are they accusations?

 

What is wrong if people have kids through fertility treatments?

They are still kids and our blood and genes right?

How does it matter what others say..people always will comment something or the other.It is not a sin to have babies through treatments and nothing to be embarrassed of.


Good luck.

 

You had observed that, eh?
The most promising thing among those worries of @rosylife is the lack of meaningful contacts with relatives, as in:

Nobody might care whether the OP has any kids, or how or when she did that. Lucky, isn't it ?

 

Spot on @Amulet . You got it. See OP you have mentioned earlier about having minimum contacts with relatives . Your problem solved. Such contacts won't bother much about what is happening in other's life. So you can take a chill pill. .

 

On the other hand, you must appreciate the deep thinking that the OP puts into whatever that bothers her. Regular people will go ahead and get pregnant like slipping on a banana peel.