Pain

@Induslady
Dear Induslady i want to ask you a simple question which is about the rules of our forum .Have you fixed any new rules and regulations to write here? only who have Masters in Journalism are qualified to be the member of our IL community?Till now i believed this is the forum who motivate people to write and share their experiences in life ,to vent out their sorrow which makes them feel light at heart and share some hilarious incidents to make others enjoy.we can't share our pain with dear and near ones because they may critiize at some time which spoils the relationship.when we post here those who like give fb and others just read and be silent.

Of late some members give fb which is not related to the main theme and makes fun of the writer in another forum . I thought only Parliamentarians use such uncivilized words but well learned scholars too do the same.if you like give fb or just ignore and move away.Don't crush the feelings of others and you have no right to do such barbarious act. We write and share our views which are liked by members and not writing to get a Pulitzer award .

I am 63 yrs.old and still i am learning new lessons from the many members.In Tamil there is a saying "கற்றது கை அளவு கல்லாதது உலகளவு"(you have learnt only a handful of lessons and what you have to learn is vast like an ocean).Now a new teacher has gone through my exam papers(posts} and given a fail mark.i don't know who appointed her as the Teacher for this forum?
one of our reader has criticised my post "FATHER" which is posted in the stories thread.
Given below is the version of the new teacher.Friends you go through my thread in the stories forum and then read the below given golden words.



"Yes, indeed. When I read some of the stories on this site, my mind wanders off to how there could be alternate versions. For example, I read the one about a fatherless child, [single mom works as a nurse], crying on "Father's Day", and the mummy consoles her crying daughter by saying that the child ought to look upon "the father who art in heaven" as a substitute, and get on with it. I read the story, and thought of all the posts from women (Married Life subforum) who have abusive husbands, and IL's, and go on to live in silent torment. All the story-mother has to do is to tell her crying, fatherless daughter a few of those IL posts, and remind themselves how lucky they are, and go on to live happily ever after.
Alternate reality is the rubric."

Living in the land of step-Fathers can't understand the feelings of Indian women and children.

Induslady if you think what i have written is not fair you can send me your views and i will leave this forum immediately.Before leaving this forum i thank you for giving such a wonderful platform to revive my writing skill.Thank you once again

 

@GoogleGlass Thanks GG.This is the third time i am getting indecent comment from that member.First i thought this is her level and why should i go below my standard to give a reply.But she continued her torture even among young writers too which is a very bad practice.That's why i revealed her attack in the open stage so that other members can view.

 

@deepthyanoop Dear Deepthi Thanks for your lovely response.i didn't read the thread you mentioned .will go through that thread now.

 

@jayasala42 @shyamala1234 Thanks for your likes

 

@Viswamitra Dear Viswa Sir
Thanks for the kind and soothing reply.i am sorry to disturb Induslady but i have to bring it to her notice.i feel her pain missing her Father as i undergo such pain even at this age.Thank you once again for the reply