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Old School Friend Issues With Whatsapp

Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by Jas82688, Jan 8, 2019.

  1. Jas82688

    Jas82688 Silver IL'ite

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    Hello ladies ,

    Need your advice here as this is not a very serious problem but it’s dusturbing me sometimes ..

    So this so called school WhatsApp group started year ago ( have finished my high school 17 years back so we met after 17 years ) but I found people are still back stabbing me and gossiping on my behind in that group I so came out for my own sanity and peace ..

    So the ladies/girls are in touch 1-1 .. so this lady not so close during school time but was in my class .. so this lady keeps gossiping about every other girls boys.. I heard sometimes like a good listener but I am fed up with these stories .. she is in India messages me my mid night or early morning time and expects an immediate ans or solution from me .. how is that possible am in USA with small kids and working where as she don’t work and have high school kids ..

    If I saw the message don’t answer immediately she starts another 10 message like ok you are angry don’t like to talk to me bye .. I told her many times How busy am .. not to expects immediate ans but will answer that day .. though I reply her in 24 hours nothing is urgent .. her messages are like she will fight with someone needs advice she needs a recipe needs advice she like my pic I need to reply immediately as soon as I saw .. why can’t she give me sometime to respond I don’t get it .. it’s annoying me .. now early morning 4 am she liked my pic said dp My kid was crying need to feed I took my time to reply her like 10 am after I reached my work place ..she bluntly blocked me for not replying .. isn’t it rude ..? She is behaving like a kid ..

    I know she have free time she Keeps chatting with people on the WhatsApp group and gives me updates and tells me gossips I told her not to tell me all those things as I am not Interested and out of that group already .. and I suspect she shares my details too with them .. since she stared telling about on of the girls divorce issue .. am not aware as am out of country she keeps pointing out her I told it’s not our business we don’t know what issues she might have faced to take that decision then also she got angry like oh you like her than me ..

    And about boys I hate to listen those old love stories ..

    How to deal with her ..she doesn’t have any maturity .. behaves like a teenage girl still..
     
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  2. Jas82688

    Jas82688 Silver IL'ite

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    To give you one more situation .. am in an emergency room with my kid having high fever following up with husband who is in some other state .. saw her message could not respond or not in a mood to respond replied her 2 days later explaining my situation like kid has high fever 104 in emergency .. so did not ask even single question how is the kid now or how is everything .. no reply nothing from her .. after a month she responded back liking my picture .. I feel this is very insane ride and disgusting behaviors from her she doesn’t have a min curtesy .. I want to aviod her completely ..
     
  3. DDream

    DDream Platinum IL'ite

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    Block her number in WhatsApp. There is an option for clear chat. Use it for your mental peace. It is better to be away from negative people.
     
    Last edited: Jan 8, 2019
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  4. anayasree

    anayasree Bronze IL'ite

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    She already solved your problem right?

     
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    Jas82688 Silver IL'ite

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    Yeah I thought same way .. but you know she Does that for few days and again when ever she gets a new story she will start the messages again .. she did that in the past .. if I ask her like have you blocked me she will come up with a reason like I fought with so and so blocked everyone .. though I know that it’s a lie I can’t or don’t want to prolong the discussion .. so even if she blocked me now she will comeback after few days ..

    So if I block her she will start a new discussion in the group that I blocked her and am rude and will try to make me bad infront of other school members .. as am out of that group I should not worry about it but why I get bad name because of her silly acts ..?
     
  6. Vedhavalli

    Vedhavalli Gold IL'ite

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    I'm sorry to say ..she is not at all a 'friend'
    Please don't call such persons friend. True friends stand in thick and thin.
    She wants only attention , time pass, kill time in social media. Social media now a days has such issues with long last classmates, batch mates.
    If she is giving you negative vibes block her. No need to interact with her.
     
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    Jas82688 Silver IL'ite

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    Yes true .. she is not a friend just class mate .. I have made a decision to block her completely for my peace ..
     
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    Yeah true .. I have to learn to be hard sometimes .. am kind of sensitive hesitant person .. but made a decision to block her completely..
     
  9. Thenmozhi39

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    Leave that yucky lady.. .What we want is mental peace not these kind of mental.. .I faced kind of problem 7 years back. ..Tat girl took over advantage on me and literally spoiled my peace of mind... Slowly i ignored cos I was just after few months of my delivery..
     
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    Just not to hurt anyone directly ...is it possible to leave whatsapp for sometime.. Tell her you ate no longer going to use whatsapp. After few days open whatsapp and block her number immediately..
     

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