hi ladies, i guess i'm in the minority here: non-indian american woman (half vietnamese/half white) with indian bf and the OLDER one no less! (i am 34, he is 28) we've been a couple for about 4 months (sweet bf claims we've been together for 6 although we were not a couple at the time and i was in fact VERY hesitant). his patient persistence won me over :clap we love each other and are navigating the murky waters of meshing into each other's social circles, slowly considering a long term future (he brought up the possibility of visiting his family in india before the end of the year), have talked about big issues early on (marriage, kids, religion, work/living location, some gender roles...) he is more mature and easy to talk to than other men i've dated much older (including my ex!) we don't really notice much of an age barrier more than the occasional cultural/communication weirdness (he is from india, came to the US for his masters/phd). we joke around to deal with issues, sometimes argue but at the end of the day, love each other and want things to move forward in a positive direction. if any of you have any insights re interracial relationships, indian men in them, the older woman/younger man thing...um, and anything else that seems relevant i failed to mention...would love to hear from you. i'm just living each day, and have never been happier thank you kindly. ciao!