We came empty handed and will leave empty handed is a famous saying. But do we live with something or empty handed. We born with a family. But no one can live with us all the time. A nursing mother also takes break with her child for some routine work. She can't be with the kid 24/7 non stop. When we are happy we share with people party with them but then when the party ends everyone just say stay happy always but don't remain with us all the time to keep us happy. When we are sad everyone try to understand but then also leave us alone and say he/she will be alright soon. But don't remain with us all the time to heal our sadness. If some one praise us then we become happy. But no one can praise us daily just to make us happy. If someone scold us we become upset but no one can scold us daily. If we get success its ours if we fail its our failure. for other emotions too we are all alone. We too can't live with someone all the time if we do so we might start fighting and want to be alone Still we love we expect we care we like to be surrounded by the people we love and with those who love us.
dear @MonikaSG this is like 'I alone in a group of people..' You have written it nicely..but that is how life is. Balancing is an art May be the balance is the best word that fits. We need to balance between work and home. We need to know when to start and when to stop.. Where to get angry and where to take it easy... Where to ignore and where to take action.. I think by the time we learn all these it will be 90 and it is the time to say ta ta bye bye to this world.. May be god should grand us a boon to remember lessons from last life so we could do better in next life ( still I don't have much hope. Then we will make next set of mistakes ) . So let us live imperfect life in this imperfect world!
I think this poem fit the best.. Thanks to Farhan Akhtar-zindagi na milegi dobara Jab jab dard ka baadal chaya Jab ghum ka saya lehraya Jab aansoo palkon tak aya Jab yeh tanha dil ghabraya Humne dil ko yeh samjhaya Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai Duniya mein yunhi hota hai Yeh jo gehre sannate hain Waqt ne sabko hi baante hain Thoda ghum hai sabka qissa Thodi dhoop hai sabka hissa Aankh teri bekaar hi nam hai Har pal ek naya mausam hai Kyun tu aise pal khota hai Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai English Translation Whenever the clouds of pain and sadness loomed, Whenever tears came till the eyelashes, Whenever this lonely heart got scared, I told my heart, Oh Heart, why do you cry? This is what happens in this world… This deep silence…the world has distributed it to everyone, Some sadness is a part of everyone’s life, Some sunshine is a part of everyone’s life, Your eyes are wet without any reason, Every second is a new season, (copyright Indicine.com) Why do you let go of such priceless moments? Oh Heart, why do you cry?