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No more lies --Is it possible?

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by kishoremommy, Jan 19, 2012.

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Pushpavalli Srinivasan said: ↑

Kishoremummy,
I appreciate you and wish you success in your resolution.

Even a truth spoken by Dharmaputhra "Aswathama hatha: kunjara:" with the intention of stopping Dronacharya causing havoc in the war and for fear of defeat in the war, was really a sin committed by him knowingly. His conscience was pricking him till the end.
Poor Yudhistra had to do this as for Lord Krishna's suggestion.
Hope that no one puts you in a dilemma,
Love,
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My God.I really don't know what I would do in such a situation.

I am a simple home maker .So,there is a high possibility of not getting into such situations.

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Viswamitra said: ↑

Hari Chandra experienced a lot of pain in life but was determined not to lie under any circumstances. I was very happy to ready your post and to know your determination. More than the respect from the others, your inner feelings should be sky high. If anyone asks for salaries of yourself or your DH, your answer should be "We don't disclose our salaries as a principle". Because that is the truth.

I honestly believe the objective of not hurting anyone else is by initiating words that would hurt them. There is nothing wrong in telling someone about your principle. If it hurts them, there is nothing much you can do about it.

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Well said ,Viswamitra.

I will just follow your method.But,the tone would be softer.

Thanks a lot.

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Littlerose said: ↑

Dear Kishoremommy,

That's very great to see such a personality in this fast moving modern life. As Viswa sir said, it's good that you say them softly. I also have the same resolution to myself and my hubby already have that and we are teaching our kid also the same. He is now 6 years old. We teach him the values daily night during bed time story hours... It really will bring wonders in life. Seeing him, the neighbouring family is very much impressed and now they have also changed a lot... Now they both are correcting each other both being same age...

In the beginning, where we are very used to satisfy people but not the truth and non-lying policy, we may have used lies.

But, once we are determined, just leave it to God, whatever may be the situation. They may be hurt by your true, but not to be scared. Time can heal everything... but adhering to the true will never lead anything bad for a long time.

So, be with the same determination except for life-endangering situation for others where you should save them atleast by telling a lie which is told even in Thirukural "Poimaiyum vaaimai idathu puraitheerntha nanmai payakum enin".

All the very best and heartily wishes for your great going. Also please teach the same to your kid as well as the kith and kin and all lovables near you for everyone who likes will be also benefitted.

Also, really feeling happy to see you started this thread for others to get inspired and follow the same. Let God be with you to overcome odd timings also.

Happy day.

Thanks and regards,

S. Sriumadevi Srinivasan.
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My eyes are wet with tears of joy.

Somehow I felt me as a loner in this path.

DH cannot follow this principle strictly as the nature of his job is like that.But,he is a honest man and never lies .

Just for giving me some surprise ,he would lie.All white lies.

Yes,i have taught my son values and principles.He too adheres to it.

I am very happy to see a family like us.

Thanks a lot and God bless you.

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Sriniketan said: ↑

Nice motivational thread Kishoremommy.
Glad to see the effects of embracing such a high quality in one self.

I am trying my best to use only positive terms in my day to day life.
Maybe I should also decrease the number of white lies too!

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Thank you ,Sriniketan.

Sure,try it out.

You will be the happiest person in the world.

I believe that a harmony should exist between our thoughts,word and deeds.Once we achieve it ,we will be in harmony with nature.

That gives us a lot of positive energy.Truth has its own beauty and the beauty will start reflecting in you.

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Kishoremommy you are just amazing.Regarding my husand's salary one.Usually some of my relatives ask about this.I reply back with indirect answer " (what)enna salary ,it just fit our monthly family expensive" and i try to change the topic .Sometime to my friends,I reply back with laugther"Don't ask salary to gents and don't ask to a lady".It's quiet difficult to handle especially if very old people ask this question or the one who knows all the above tricks. ....

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Nice post Krish.

Your suggestion is good too.changing the topic is a good thing.As you rightly said,old people are sometimes adamant in getting the information.

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Thanks kishoremommy.vasister vaayala vazhthu vankkurra mathiri errukku.

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krishlakshmi said: ↑

Thanks kishoremommy.vasister vaayala vazhthu vankkurra mathiri errukku.
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mmm,krish ,are you making fun of me?

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I am seriously telling.

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Is it so?

Then O.K. and Thank you.

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