Need ur suggestion

Dear,
Ask him clearly if there is any medical condition that needs to be treated (Dont straight away ask whether he is impotent or not). Tell him if it is so, there are many advancements in medical science and that it can be solved if he takes the step and that you will help him out keeping it a secret from all others except doctors.

Or ask him to come to a counsellor and tell if he feels bad to tak to you directly about this. Tell him whatever it be you will accept and there is no need to hide anything.

After he comes out with the reason, act according to the situation.

 

Hi ,
I feel that he already had an affair or have got a lady pregnant, with whom he wants to marry..try to check his call log or mails to get clear picture..
if he is impotent he would not hav married u just like that..may be he had an affair for which he does not want to continue relation..
if u ask him then he wont tell the reason try to dig his personals, say books or gifts check if u get any clue.

 

Barbie,
I really don't understand. What do you mean by affiars? Is it only love affair you are talking about. If there is no physical relation what is the need that, one will roam around with multiple woman.
How are you sure he didn't have physical relation with any of them?Are you just beleiving what he told you?

This is my assumption of why he married you & rejected you. Most likely he would have fallen for a woman & asked for his parents approval to marry him. As usual they wouldn't have accepted & he would have married girl his parents chose(i.e You). Now to get back to her he is asking divorce.

Here is what you can do. Find out what's really happening. Don't beleive a word of what he says. Try to find out through his social networking, friends circle. Throw the evidence in front of him & confront. You still doesn't seem to have decided on what to do. Whether to fight for the relation or come out. If you have decided to come out all this becomes unnecessary.

 

Generally in such cases the guy marries to please his parents who fear that he will marry out of caste etc.
He could have done this under pressure from his family and had no intentions of staying married.
In all this mess the guy and his family forgot that they were destroying a young innocent girls life for nothing.
His parents will not be surprised at the turn of events.

You are right in saying that you need a solid reason for the divorce, he has played with your life , your emotions and cannot walk out smelling of roses. Marriage is not a joke.
Let him sweat it out, marriage and divorce are serious business and cannot be treated lightly.

 

If he is really having impotency then he would obviously try to stay married to save his face...
Y is he asking divorce first....

 

Entire things appear fishy. Why should he marry you & say you are incompatible, when he could have married any one of his choice.
You have mentioned that his parents are also sad with the turn of events, couldn't they get the information from the son on why he wants a divorce?I don't know how is your relation with them. But either you or your parents can't you push them to get the Real reason?