Need help form all ttc friends............

twinbabyhopes · Feb 21, 2012

Hi all ttc friends,
I know only u all can understand my feelingS and my problems, my ttc history in brief, I am gng to 34yrs with in a month, ttc from 3 ½ yrs 3 cycles of clomid failed, 1 iui- failed, 2 ivf failed( both on 2<sup>nd</sup> day transfer and embies does not grow to day 5, doctor suggestd me to go for ivf wiht 5days transfer),
all bloodtest are normal , HSG- normal, everything is normal
But unable to conceive……unexplained infertility
Finished 9 months shahsti pooja, gharbharakshmabike ghee and also visited navaneetha Krishna temple
Visited many astrologers all said there are chances to give birth…..but don’t know when
Don’t know y god is palying with me,day by day i am feeling low very low and guilty.....

All my friends cousins neighbours collegues and all around me have child some have 2 and some have one 1<sup>st</sup> one 5-8yrs old and second 1-2-3,
I don’t understand y its happening with me and y me…..
I am not able to anything I cant holdtime and running age ,I don’t know what to do now
Really I am blank, should I go for next IVF, or I go for donor egg or surrogacy or donor embryo??????????????????
And if I go for donor egg or embi …will my hubby accepts baby ????
Thousands of question in my head………….but no answers
I want to become pregnant and have baby at any cost………….some time I feel I don’t want this life without child and I feel pity for my hubby ……………..but its not in my hand
What do I do?
please suggest me friends
I really need ur help

Rachna · Feb 21, 2012

Dear Frnd

dont feel low and stay positive....things will wok out soon

will pray for u...

SUBHAARCHIE · Feb 21, 2012

Hi twinbabyhopes,
It is hard to accept the unexplained reasoning...But there are many ladies who had even conceived naturally after multiple failed IVFs....You just have to keep trying and eventually it will happen... Try to stay positive, healthy and have you tried accupuncture yet??? It has been said to help with fertility.Also your gynecologist can help you in deciding your next step...there are still options left...
One more thing...this mental stress may affect your family life too...which will in turn make the situation worse...do not feel low...you are the one who should have hopes so that you can support your hubby emotionally...believe in god...It'll definitely happen!!You will get a BFP soon...God will answer all your prayers... I wish you the best!!!!!

subakutty · Feb 22, 2012

Hi Twinbabyhopes,

I can understand your feelings as i am also going to be 34 within two to three months. I don't know how to console you as i am also in same situation like you only thing is i am TTC for 5 years. Anyway don't worry, as subhaarchie told stress plays important role in TTC. I am sure we will hold our LO. God will answer our prayers. come on, we can join hands to face the TTC problems. my prayers to you to get BFP soon.

hopesinbaby2010 · Feb 22, 2012

Hi Twinbabyhopes,

Sure ur prayers will be answered by God.

Did u find out why ur IVF cycle has failed and the reason why it became a day2 transfer and why cant ur transfer is not on day3 or day5.

I know how difficult it will be but u need to find the solution also. If ur RE cant reply properly then get a second opinion from other doctors. It will be very helpful for u. I think u can have ur own biological child So dont make the decisions very fast. Just relax and work out everything in another way. Sure u will be able to come to a decision.

Baby dust to u!

reshma2010 · Feb 22, 2012

Dear Twinbabyhopes,

Please don't worry. Stress is the worst enemy of ttc. Many of them conceived naturally even after failed IVFs.

Don't think of donor eggs until you find the reason for your IVF failures. Please check with your doctor to find the cause of two IVF failures. I would say consult few RE's...if you get favourable reply from anyone proceed your treatment with them.

Remember this too shall pass. God's delay is not denial..God will surely bless you...Soon you will share good news with us....Will pray for you....

twinbabyhopes · Mar 3, 2012

thansk all of u for ur support
i am planning to for next ivf in two months
hope this time it works

subakutty · Mar 3, 2012

twinbabyhopes said: ↑

thansk all of u for ur support
i am planning to for next ivf in two months
hope this time it works
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Hi twinbabyhopes

All the best for your IVF,

Before going to IVF. some tips for you to succeed.

Don't think or Google about IVF lot
Eat healthy and drink lots of fluids (like fruit juices and water), keep your mind calm for that do meditation for at least 5 mins a day with pranayama (breathing exercise), do walking early morning if possible or in the evening.
pray to god in the day and before going to bed. I am sure you will succeed.

My prayers to you

zainabsarfraz · Mar 3, 2012

Dear twinbabyhopes,

All the best for ur IVF, dont worry much god always has a better plan just believe in him and keep praying.
My aunt had a similar situation she tried all possible things for 10 years and in her 10th year of marriage without any difficulties she even had stopped taking medicine but she got preg now she has 2lovely kids. just hope for the best be calm and keep pryaing.

jogu07 · Mar 5, 2012

twinbabyhopes said: ↑

thansk all of u for ur support
i am planning to for next ivf in two months
hope this time it works
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Dear friend....Have faith in God, you will surely be blessed...!!!

Good Luck and lots of baby dust to u...!!! Dont worry you are in our prayers...!!!