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  1. Dec 27, 2011 #1
    EagerForInfo

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    Just want to know.... Do all wives really like having ***? or is it something they do because the "have to"? I mean you really don't know what its like till you get married and what if you don't like it then????
     
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  2. Dec 27, 2011 #2
    vjbunny

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    Dear EFI..
    It depends lot on the guy...Actualluy I too dint know before marriage and I was scared for 1 year but I could sense my Dhs love n patience so relaxed .....
     
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    amunique

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    Dear EFI,
    For women this needs emotional back up for guys its just physical... so depends on the guy... if u really like ur DH.. then will be good else.. a Duty ;)
     
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  4. Dec 28, 2011 #4
    lakshmi72

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    Dear EFI,

    Depends on your mental state - how comfortable your DH makes you ready for it . I also did not know anything. It was my DH who made me comfortable and also helped me to enjoy it. Initially its just physical attraction. But have noticed over years for ladies its a kind of emotional need to feel that your DH still loves you.
     
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    RJMK

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    For me its all on my intersest..Cant do it all the time..sometimes I tell my H that I ma not in the mood.Else when I got married..we were very compatible over this..things changed only after I had my first son...Now its more like cuddling and understanding...
     
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    indus2

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    Agree - things change a lot with child birth. The child gets all the attention with little time for the couple to spend with each other. This is quite common - not much to worry.
     
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    bechno

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    I think it depends on you mental status which can lead a positive way.
     
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