Need advice to handle my teenager boy not to fall in love

geetharul · May 6, 2014

Dear friends,

My son is a quite and good boy. But at present I know that he fell in love. I want to know how to speak this issue with him without hurting. I don't say love is bad. Now he is going to eleventh std. Till now he studied well. Please help

yellowmango · May 6, 2014

Tell him he can have a girlfriend after he is 21yrs old .Till then he has to concentrate on studies as no girl friend will stay be him for too long if he doesn't study hard and gets a good job.

It is easier said than done.

I have similar problem but mine is a daughter.

geetharul · May 7, 2014

Thank u very much. I am expecting the proper time to start

pawarju · May 14, 2014

Oh dear...Dont worry.... Just now and then talk generally about the importance of studies to come up in life and to get a good job.
Never talk about the Love issue directly... It will hurt their ego and they will be stubborn.... so only way to advice indirectly.

and try and meet the girl and be friendly with her and appreciate her and generally talk about the importance of studies..