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My In-laws Didn't Bought Me Any Cloths Before Marriage

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by nehakapil78, Dec 3, 2016.

  1. justanothergirl

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    I disagree.
    way too much drama and none of the men I know would tolerate that.. The movie is the gift atleast in the world I come from.
     
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    Movie is the gift??! Not before marriage or in the early years of marriage. Any guy who has a little knowledge of women will know better than to not get her a birthday gift. Maybe he needs to spend some waking hours in the company of women.
     
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    Yes movie is a nice gift after all she did say she wanted to spend time with him...and u dont get fancy gifts by shouting at ur fiance picking a fight few days before ur birthday/saying u are busy /I dont need a gift.
    company of more of such high maintenance women?..the guy will rethink marriage.
     
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    JAG-I have to disagree with you on this. A gift is just to show care and love for his future bride. The gift may not be expensive. A simple rose or a birthday card would also do. OP is not expecting diamonds or cars. I do know a lot of men take women at whatever they say. But even then before marriage the guys are expected to be a bit affectionate and romantic. That's not considered high maintenance
     
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    The way OP has described the birthday episode and the lehenga thing cloud her otherwise understandable disappointments.
     
  6. justanothergirl

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    Rose ok card ok movie not ok....thank god I am not a guy.
     
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    I also disagree with you in this, although I agree with you in most of your comments when it comes to DIL, MIL and son . And NO a card or movie will NOT be ok for me. The song will be my expectation , but will be ok with the guy taking a day off, spending lot of time, going to beach, a nice dinner, a small piece of jewllery ( as they are already engaged) some roses and ends with a peck on the cheek. Some romance is needed in life, before the reality start hitting.
    Now watch this and enjoy :)

     
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    .... move dto chatter.
     
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    I think the guy doesn't know how to handle the girl's wishes. And the girl doesn't know how to address his actions. If a 'proper' gift was given, the level of cheapness or preciousness of the gift may have been the matter of interest.
     
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    even Girls dont understand girls, than how can man understand them???

    By the way i can buy cheap things for myself for saving my husband's money but my husband cant save his money by buying cheap gifts for me ....:shakehead:...
    he can make me happy by buying a 100 rs book but he very well knows not to buy cheap suits for me .....:grinning-smiley-048:

    thinking logically, complicated enough to understand. Apply emotional intelligence, easy enough to understand....
    not understanding...leave it yaar...
     

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