Mother In Law Issues And Husband Not Supporting

don't expect your husband to fight for you.husbands are like that only.if your husband talks in skype unknown to you,let him be.keep yourself cool and don't give them chance to bait you

 

For your own peace, don't get into it. You can't stop the children from contacting their parents. Will u be ok if your children's partners does the same thing and ask your children not to talk to you?

It's your fight, he's going to try to stay away from all this drama.

As for the mil drama, yes, that happens almost at all of our households. Acting in front of their relatives n husbands and being all bad to the dil's n many more. Anger and noise will only get you bad name and strain your relationship with your husband. Don't get angry n react, instead think of smart ways to deal with this. Only that will get you long way.

 

As others have said let him talk to his mom.
If you don't like ur mil don't talk to her.
If he is angry,just ignore.
Can't please him all the time

 

Its strange that even your MIL acts as if she never spoke to her son. She has all rights to actually speak,in other words,no one on earth has the authority to stop them from communicating with each other.

If your DH is not supporting you,fight your battle yourself. Not allowing him to talk to his mother is not going to help.Infact it will make him feel that you are actually bad and put you in poor light.

The same time,no one can force you to talk to your MIL. It should come to you naturally. If he is annoyed, let him be,ask him to either help sort the situation or leave the situation as it is. I would say,maintain a distance with your MIL,but have some communication. Because in future if some family occasion comes up,you will be in tough spot with zero communication with her and a non supportive DH. DILs dont have much choice but to listen to the elders of the family to save their own peace.Pick your battles that are worth fighting for.

 

Op...you should not object to your husband talking to his mother.
Would you like if he expects you to stop talking to your mother ?

As for mil talking bad about you ...you can ask her politely in front of your husband that you have heard about her saying things about you .Tell her she should be careful about who she talks to to and just smile.

If she denies....just smile .let her know you get to know what she talks to others . She will stop the free bad mouthing and may be restrict it to a select few.Even then she will be worried.

Don't tell her who told you...just smile and move away.

Don't spoil relations with husband over this .Not worth it .
Just wish her formally when your husband calls and give him the phone back....but don't stop talking unless she directly misbehaves with you.

 

yellow , i dont think she wants her husband not to talk with his mom ..i think she is upset that her mil lies about it