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mom loves son, dad loves the daughter!

Discussion in 'Schoolgoers & Teens' started by madhurigupta, Jun 5, 2008.

  1. madhurigupta

    madhurigupta New IL'ite

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    Hi! everyone, why mother loves son but worries more about the daughter, whereas father loves the daughter but worries more about the son. Any clue?
     
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    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    That's very true.
    I think its just opposite sex's nature to worry about son & daughter.
     
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    rose8282 Platinum IL'ite

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    From my personal experience...

    Mother loves the son probably because sons are different from girls (which was what mothers were when small,so we know their nature)..also they are very naughty and this naughtiness is very cute..and they worry about daughters coz they know the difficulties that a girl can face.
    Father loves the daughter for the same reason as I gave earlier for mother-son...they know what it is to be a boy.My husband says he wants a daughter (like me) as he knows sons will be naughty like him (who was a huge prankster as a kid) A father might worry about sons coz they have to be more responsible and usually boys learn this very late.
     
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    Anikha Silver IL'ite

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    From my observation , a father or mother gets worried about a child who is weak either financially or physically or intellectually , regardless of gender.
     
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    Anikha Silver IL'ite

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    An other observation quite opposite to yours ,

    It's not about loving a specific gender child.........

    It's about emotional closeness....

    sons are closer to moms,
    daughters are closer to dad emotionally ...
     
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    rose8282 Platinum IL'ite

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    Its nothing like that...I respect and love my father a lot..but I share things or rather I am more free to talk to my mother.I always thought I was emotionally close to my father..rather I think mothers make their bonds stronger with their kids..irrespective of gender. So if you say emotionally who is more close to whom,I dont agree with that:)
     
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