Mil Creating Lot Of Problems! Please Help

hi ladies

For connection of the story please refer to my previous thread with title"depressed please help!help!"
she stay with us just for a week and fight with me four times.My husband was doing packing to go for training session to usa for 1 week.Before the day of his flight he has to stay at sis inlaw house for 1 day and 1 night to drop my mil.soo today my husband was doing packing his clothes to leave....as i already told he does not talk to me from last 10 days...mil was irritating me by asking why my son does not look happy....what happened ...bla bla..i did not give her any clue what is the real matter.then she try asking my husband when i was in another room.she ask my husband that did i talked to him yet or not?now i come to the point , he was packing clothes to leave and then he start pressing his clothes likes shirts,after some time mil come into our room and ask my husband that she will do the pressing clothes and she look like really weird.i suddenly realised the bag in which my hubby packed passport,,,there was mine too.when i check hubby bag i did not found my passport,i get stress out,,,then i checked my bag,purse and suitcases and everywhere and cant find anywhere.then to make sure i check my hubby another bag, then mil see this and go to my hubby and tell she will lost your documents,,,,i heard that and came to room and ask hubby in polite way that have you seen my passport.he reply rudely 'what can i do'.then mil said in very rude manner oh what are you doing by checking all the bags and going here and there.u will lost his documents rather than helping him to pressing his clothes.then i said iam just looking for my documents,,,, how i lost his documents.she said oh you just wake up to check it now in minute. i did not say anything to her but go to kitchen to divert my mind when i could not found piece of mind then i asked her how i will lost his documents...are you more worried than me??,,,,are not those documents important to me?? then she says you dont know what are you doing,,,,,a wife has the responsibilty to press the husband clothes. then i said it is not the trend here...everyone should do their own.then she said oh you talk about the rights and you dont know your responsibilities....what the hell.she might be filling the ear of my husband.we had a ugly fight between i and mil.at last i asked her did you came here to fight,then she slow down.then my husband give me the passport in angry manner....i say thanks and keep it with me.they left for sis inlaw house and i said bye to both of them.....kindly tell me m i right or wrong....how to handle all this drama.

 

Thanks dear
you make my spirit high as i was feeling low today.