Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by blessbabydust, Mar 23, 2012.
Please include me in prayers
After long time i just popped in lovely ladies .... Will reinitate the prayers for all the onces in budding session soon you will be holding flowers in your hand @@@@ just keep saying the mantra first thing in the morning " Thank you God for the beautiful day and soon i will be holding my lovely kutty in my hand soon and its not far "... say this with your hands in folded position every morning and see magic happening in ur womb
I am 34 years old trying for second baby , feeling low because my IVF failed. Not able to come out of it. After investing so much financially , physically and emotionally , it is very disappointing if it did not work. Since one week I am crying like anything .
NEver get disappointed .... take life as a fun ...ride . Do u wait in a queue to get into fun ride or just jump ?? Would you get excited for the wait as u know the ride is going to be fun or would u get disappointed and rush .... Just wait for your turn you are travelling in right path .... u have one baby to enjoy just have fun time things will happen
First of all a big salute to all for fighting and all the positivity and wish you all the very best to all of you to become mom.
After reading certain pages here what I could see is there are two common problems PCOD/PCOS and low amh.
Whatever I am saying might be a little awkward but this is the truth.
First of all AMH is a qualitative test. Its not quantitative. If you do the test at different labs you may get different values. The low AMH doesn't mean that you are infertile it just indicates that your egg reserve is low that is in general if people are attaining menopause at mid 50s people with low amh will reach menopause number of years earlier.
If our age is less than 30 then there is no relationship between amy and the quality of eggs.
People with the complaint of only low amh and other values are categorized under unexplained infertility. 90% suggestion will be IVF/ICSI/IUI etc.
So please don't worry you might have read so many thread and success stories of people with low ang even 0.02.. all we have to do is try our best and pray to God. Passing the luteal phase (last 15 days of cycle) will be very difficult especially who are under aided pregnancy... For that please be occupied, don't be alone. Spend time with people around you and keep your mind busy with some other thoughts. Over expectation also will lead to more pain.
When it comes to PCOD/PCOS which is not uncommon 1 out of 3 women/girls have this issue because of the lifestyle. And we have heard so many success stories of these people as well.
So.please don't stress yourself. Don't panic.
Have your IC with normal happiness not just for the sake of pregnancy.
Once you trust the medicines complete the medication course. Ensure that there is improvement in values. Always its good to go for healthy pregnancy than hurried one.
Nowadays normal pregnancy and normal delivery have become uncommon.
For pcod/pcos having cinnamon tea will be helpful. Kindly have a check on your weight.
Another truth is its not that whoever conceived naturally don't have any issues. Even they might be having all these issues. But it worked for them. The same way all is well that ends well. Everyone of you will have their own baby in hands soon.
Kindly watch this video. Infuse positivity. Everything will be fine soon. All the best. Huggzzz.
please include me in your prayers as well
I will pray for all the women here.
My 2 Cents , I have simplified few suggestions , very crisp for you to use as a checklist:
1. Please take FOLIC ACID supplement as advised by ur doctor , well one month before you try for pregnacy. Please include variety of natural fruits and vegetables ( But eat less of high mercury fish).
2. Very critical is to identify our fertile period. Please note that our eggs are fertile only for 12-24 HOURS (Whereas the guy's sperm could be there for 6 days).
3. Please use a ovulution PREDICTION KIT, but be sure to read the instructions.
4. If you are using the basal body temperature , the most fertile period is during the two to three days BEFORE this slight rise in body temperature ( 0.5 Def Farenhit/ .3 Deg Celcius).
5. Have sex every other day during the fertile window.
6. Checking your cervical mucus for a clean, thinner and SLIMY/SLIPPERY( slippery is an indication that it will make way for sperm to reach egg).
7. Please do not exert yourself physically by exercising too much, just the regular walks etc would do.
8. Please manage the stress that's caused by workplace, family etc.
9. If you have not got pregnant after having unprotected sex for a year, it is time to consult your doctor.
My 2 cents : Be positive, Occupy yourself with tasks that give positive energies.( I used to blog) This is not the time to prod over the negatives in your life ,( if you are'nt blessed with good in-laws, hubby etc.) All that can wait
P.S I have gone through what you have been through. Now my little angel is 5 years old
I have also written about this in my blogs elsewhere ( blog details in my profile)
Hi, I am a mother of a five year old baby girl. Now I am trying for a second baby this month onwards. Please shower your blessings on me ladies. My daughter always asks for a baby sister and I am desperately trying to get pregant soon. I am 39 years old and hope there is no complications. Sticky baby dust to all of you.
Ladies keep me in your prayers I shall pray for all the TTC sisters here