Lonely Life

My cousin is financially doing very well with her hard work so relatives see her as rich and tag along with her.

 

you are going through rough phase in different angels, I could relate to it in many things like I said before in your previous post. life teaches hard lessons and you will blossom like a lotus out of the mud, while are you keeping the distance from some people in your life , keep up the spirit, watch yourself that it wont lead to obsessive negative feelings and not get in depression, you still have chances to get pregnant, life changes, you may settle in India/abroad whatever it is, you will get into different stage of life, life looks hopeful, happy again.

 

it is not that it will continue and you will get used to it.. what I mean is some of the things will change , there is a quote by Charlie Chaplin " nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our troubles"

try to read these good sites.

tinybuddha.com
littlethings.com
bigthink.com
healyourlife.com

 

Op, Give it time. Everything takes its own time. Especially pregnancy.For me it took more than 3 yrs to conceive. Luckily I am abroad so didn't have to hear _ Oh you don't have any kids. My poor parents had to hear it. But they pointed out that she will have when she wants.

When I married , I was in my 20's but I was firm I wanted to be settled before kids and had one in 30's. In India everybody tell don't plan in 30's , but nowadays its a norm and everybody want to be comfortable before becoming parents.

Relax your mind and put baby making pressure on back burner. I am sure in 6 months you will come back with you are pregnant news. Take care of your health, everything will fall into place. Good Luck.

 

Megha,
Sorry I wrote the earlier post without reading the rest of the thread....I think all the PPs have given great suggestions....I can very well understand the pain of loneliness....if it feasible for you and your family, and you are mentally prepared then you can seriously start putting paperwork for adoption..while you are trying for baby....I personally do not believe in more aggressive treatment for fertility because I feel it does more harm to the body..maybe you can try upto 3 cycle max, but I have seen people who adopted naturally had a kid later...adoption in india waitlist is long and I think the combined age of husband and wife should not be more than 90..
I am not sure which part of India you belong to, I am from north indian metro city and when I went there, I felt life there has its cons with more powercuts, water scarcity, crowd, pollution, even if you are in crowd you may feel lonely..you may go enjoy the life there and come back here if you can afford to....it would be nice to put your loneliness to good use...not all of us are blessed with big families....I have 2 brothers and with both of them we have formal relations, my DH side, same there sibling relations are not that attached...lucky are the people here who have good family....BUT i feel going back to India may not solve your problem of family...think, re think... try, test waters and then act , good luck!