Learn to say"I understand" to kids Parents Must read

In my opinion Yeah,I understand is a very important sentence in life....
3 Idiots the only thing that made me laugh for more than 2.30 hrs after a very long period
of time sorry years.and also made me realise a lot.A awesome family entertaining movie...
In 3idiots they say that career should be left on the students priority.
But the choice cannot be fully given into the hands of the teenagers because they are not aware of the consequences and parents cannot take the decision or force also.I think career for the child is a parent-child thing.Both should decide.

And all the drawbacks can be changed.When parents become friendly with kids.Domination,superiority,discouragment,underestimation,Abusing others,Badmouthing,jealous,anxiety,tension should not be shown to kids from childhood.
When a parent is friendly,childrens have no choice other than asking them.Why do they discuss the career with friends??Because they will understand emotionally as well as educational wise but parents are alwayseither dominating or forcing child to take parents decision and not understanding the child's feelings.. So if a parent is friendly how will he/she go to others for advice.

Try saying the sentence "Yeah I understand" to all.Anyone and everyone will feel happy atleast one person is there to understand..


Mumbai Mirror,A English newspaper daily featuring local news from Mumbai and other features like entertainment & city happenings.I have been allergic to the newspaper,everyday you open it,always a suicide news is seen that too young students in and around mumbai.

In this three months (dec,jan & feb) there are more than 30 cases of suicide in mumbai..Reason mainly is STUDIES....So the government is also trying to change the pattern of passing and all..Thank God atleast now their minds work.

1st pressure family uska beta pilot ka course kiya,eska beta engineering kiya kudh ke beta ko tenth mein pass to karne dho na.:rotflParents always keep nagging behind the kids.Paapa say what tension do you have other than studies?Now kid(thinks in mind) I have thousands of tensions what do you knowI have applied for meenu,reenu,leenu khon accept karega ?? khon reject karega?yeah sochkey neendh bhi nahi aathi hai..Aapko kya tension hai bhagwan jaane mummy kaise patti aapko...Tum tho sukh se so rahey ho.....aab thum chaho tho meenu,reenu,leenu ke mummy bhi nahi pattege
Woh bhagwan kabhi apna aank kholega mere liyey.......:biglaugh


I think the whole education system has to be changed in india,atleast in Mumbai.The pressure is more on the childrens.2nd pressure is classes yes tution classes.Classes is where parents have to invest like LIC premium for a year and then squeeze their childrens to run to classes after school. This is one of the wealthiest income of many Mumbaikars.

3rd pressure is school Push push and push the students to get good marks or atleast pass mark to print in the school magazine "Our school is getting cent percent result for the past so and so years" which enhances the fees of the students who are admitted in the school the coming years:rant.Tution Classes should be banned.So that school teachers can concentrate and coach the students more...Teachers are more lenient on students on studies ground because they think anyhow students will go to classes so whats the point in struggling for them at school.

The future is in the hands of the teenagers.We should not leave them deceased.Encourage and be friendly will kids especially teenagers.Understand them at least utter the sentence "I understand" because kids always think that parents never understand them.Exams are near..Studies is not life just a part of life..They should hardwork and study and try their level best.talk to all your near and dear ones who are writting exams to not worry and just try their level best.God will take care of rest.Learn to say "Yeah,I understand" if you need your loved ones..

 

Yes vijima your cent percent right..I agree with you..

i am happy & thankful to see your first FB...

I am sure you would be a freindly mom:thumbsup

 

hahhaha susri You are the one who applied "yeah I understand" on my reply..Thank You...
Yes very true....Childrens are stressed at this point of time parents should cope up and not stress them more...

 

Dear Padmini Aunty,

You have included a thoughtful bit of advice to all...

Thanks a lot.