Learn to let go off your hurts

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When you are hurt and upset caused to you by your near and loved ones :rantwhom you least expected and it very much robbed your peace of mind allowing you to haunt your thoughts by their ill behaviour , the best way is to pen it down in a sheet of paper :coffee stating clearly about the unexpected words or sentences or the inappropriate behaviour of that person which you think was unacceptable , unfair and bizarre . Express your feelings as much as you can without editing . Let all your anger and frustration be recorded in the paper and Once you are done with the writings , tear the sheet into pieces and throw it in the dustbin. In this way the grudge feeling does not build up in your heart and your mind will not think for retaliation later on and as time goes on, you will definitely feel a breeze of forgiveness enters you which sublimes your thought . you then will forgive the person and forget the issues which is already a past now . In this way you can move on in life leaving the past way behind and not ruining your innerself in the present by carrying the seed of grudge whithin you which can outburst at any point for any petty issues . This is one of the method of boosting your self esteem and bring it back to normalcy . you definitely will feel relaxed in your thoughts and will shift your inner state from being low and depressed to a feeling of higher sense and tranquility .

However when the same person who has hurted you does something good to you or praised you , hard for you to believe it and where your thoughts becomes lofty and you are touched and happy by their impeccable impression :idea then , the best way here again is to label it by writing it in your dairy or saving it in your sms draft and preserve it or you can tell your friend or family sharing the fact . In this way you will always cherish the moments when you get to reread your saved text and will have an optimistic attitude towards the person by being considerate towards their nature and accepting them the way they are as we cannot everytime expect the amazing and good behaviour from them always . They also have to be in their natural behaviour which is a combination of good and bad because a person can never be perfect and flaws are a part of them. We need to learn to let go away our hurts and to engrave our benefits so that it will always be remembered and acknowledged.:hiya​

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Hi mssunitha,

i am glad you liked it. thanks for the appreciation and the encouragement.


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sweet Sree,

you have defined patience so nicely dear and it so true . Patience indeed is a harmless weapon which will allow us to go a long way in balancing a relationship.. very well said dear.

regards,

 

Hello omsrisai,

Thankyou for coming to my blog space. I am delighted you liked my blog and appreciating it.....

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Dear ILT,

So sweet of you for appreciating and encouraging me. you made my day dear....infact i am a big fan of yours ... To be honest, i always loved your blogs and was so much inspired by your blogs that one day i just gave a thought why not i start writing and see myself becoming a better writer...

thanks a ton for stopping by and reading it and come up with all appreciations..

waarm regards,