It Is In Our Hands To Make Our Life Peaceful And Enjoyable

iyerviji · May 15, 2018

PushpavalliSrinivasan said: ↑

Dear Viji,
If there is no compromise and complement between a couple life will be miserable. You are really great following the basic rues of life and leading a simple life.
You are right. We should try to make our life happy by adjustment.
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Sorry Mami for the late reply. Thanks for the lovely message

nandinimithun · May 16, 2018

iyerviji said: ↑

God brings us to this world for some purpose . Everyone has some positive and negative . It is difficult to be perfect. Lot of adjustment is necessary in life to lead a happy life. We need God's and elder's blessings for everything in life. I am blessed that I lead a happy life in old age because of God and elder's blessings. When you come up in life after struggling in the beginning then only you understand the value of life. I was taught to adjust in life , so I am following that in my life. I had the privilege of taking care of my mother, father and grandmother in their last days becauseof which I got ther blessings and they are always with me guiding me and showing the right path.

I also wonder about life. In my opinion I feel it is in our hands to make our married life peaceful and enjoyable. God makes the jodis , some are not happy with their better half and how much they try to change them it is difficult. If we are lucky and are able to adjust and forgive them for what we dont like in them then we can lead a peaceful life.

It is difficult to get a perfect partner but we can try to change them and if not possible we should change ourselves. In many things me and my husband are different but I have tried to adjust with him in the way he wants . He is very loving and caring though he is short tempered but that is only for a short time and he will forget about it as if nothing happened and once I asked him also why he gets angry sometimes for which he will say when I am angry how can I stop myself. I think you must have read my thread May be we are different from each other but we complete each other.

In present age in has become difficult for old age people to lead their life. The interest on investments have become less. So accordingly we have to live . My husband is very economic and spends only when it is very necessary. Thats why we are able to live a simple life .

If we have faith in God he will help us in need. I have had many experiences where God helped me .
If we have God and elder's blessings then our life will be peaceful and enjoyable. It is in our hands.
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Dear @iyerviji aunty.
Loved this write up, as usual its elegant and simple and made me feel, am i moving fast in life....
Pause, breathe and enjoy life...
True aunty faith in god does wonders

Thyagarajan · May 17, 2018

iyerviji said: ↑

God brings us to this world for some purpose . Everyone has some positive and negative . It is difficult to be perfect. Lot of adjustment is necessary in life to lead a happy life. We need God's and elder's blessings for everything in life. I am blessed that I lead a happy life in old age because of God and elder's blessings. When you come up in life after struggling in the beginning then only you understand the value of life. I was taught to adjust in life , so I am following that in my life. I had the privilege of taking care of my mother, father and grandmother in their last days becauseof which I got ther blessings and they are always with me guiding me and showing the right path.

I also wonder about life. In my opinion I feel it is in our hands to make our married life peaceful and enjoyable. God makes the jodis , some are not happy with their better half and how much they try to change them it is difficult. If we are lucky and are able to adjust and forgive them for what we dont like in them then we can lead a peaceful life.

It is difficult to get a perfect partner but we can try to change them and if not possible we should change ourselves. In many things me and my husband are different but I have tried to adjust with him in the way he wants . He is very loving and caring though he is short tempered but that is only for a short time and he will forget about it as if nothing happened and once I asked him also why he gets angry sometimes for which he will say when I am angry how can I stop myself. I think you must have read my thread May be we are different from each other but we complete each other.

In present age in has become difficult for old age people to lead their life. The interest on investments have become less. So accordingly we have to live . My husband is very economic and spends only when it is very necessary. Thats why we are able to live a simple life .

If we have faith in God he will help us in need. I have had many experiences where God helped me .
If we have God and elder's blessings then our life will be peaceful and enjoyable. It is in our hands.
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Kudos to another aesthetic essay.
Madam sister’s views and view-points are always bases on her wonderful ripe experience exemplifying the fact that happiness in married life irrespective of age of couple comes out of simple living and high thinking.
The concluding part of essay emphasises Mind less God whatever action one takes may Maynot turn out fruitful, correct or right.
Thanks to sister once again for such sterling views.
Regards.
God Bless Us All Always.

iyerviji · May 18, 2018

nandinimithun said: ↑

Dear @iyerviji aunty.
Loved this write up, as usual its elegant and simple and made me feel, am i moving fast in life....
Pause, breathe and enjoy life...
True aunty faith in god does wonders
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Thanks dear for your lovely feedback

iyerviji · May 18, 2018

Thyagarajan said: ↑

Kudos to another aesthetic essay.
Madam sister’s views and view-points are always bases on her wonderful ripe experience exemplifying the fact that happiness in married life irrespective of age of couple comes out of simple living and high thinking.
The concluding part of essay emphasises Mind less God whatever action one takes may Maynot turn out fruitful, correct or right.
Thanks to sister once again for such sterling views.
Regards.
God Bless Us All Always.
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