well, its an issue from the time i got married. my hubby is religious and very pious. he worship all the Gods except lord Muruga which is our family (inlaws) diety. am pious to lord Muruga since my childhood and continue workshipin along with other gods. It worries me a lot when he speak hatefully about his family diety... and its irritating to the hell that my MIL made him to show hatredness for a particular diety. its very immature and childish.. even when i entered this family my Fil said that murugan is our family diety pray him and he will bless u with all happiness.. atonce my MIl called me in a room and asked me never to worship murugan...she said that she worshiped murgan and her whole life spoiled. she talked like this to me on my first day of marriage. imagine that how many years she would hav abused to infest my hubby's mind to speak with disrespect of a particular god! whenever i ask him to come to murgan temple not only he refuses he talks disrespectfully of the temple and god. i know immature to the core.. sick to even think of that.. i respect ppl who even says that god is not there...but this is irritating to the core..dont know what to do other than just ignore. and its painful that he even doesnt consider me and just visit the temple for me..