In Laws commenting on my son

hi...I havent gone thourhg all the replies but am sure it must have been already said....this is very common thing... mother will always have to hear things which might not all be pleasant...the only thing you can do is filter it in your head...dont pay attention to things which you know are wrong... after a while the indifference you show to such wron advices will have the effect of other ppl being little resentful but at least they will tone down...if not ignore further more..easier said than done..
one thing for sure, dont force feed your child especially not chocolate!!! it will only harm him....so be firm and just say NO....