I Am Not Able To Forget My Exhusband

I like those highlighted qualifiers.

The Shakespeare play (and its million adaptations in the latter days) called "Taming of the Shrew", describes such characters. A man who loves conflicts for the challenges it offers. And the play has a happy ending, not a divorce.

Throwing things and yelling, when not taken as a challenge and welcomed, could lead to FEAR, and flight.

"Why people stay in a bad marriage" discussion is something we have a lot of on this forum. Redeeming features, necessity, no-other-options-immediately-viable, too-late-to-change, etc. etc.