Husband wants to be Talkative and Improve Sense of Humor

Don't get me wrong.

Did he ask you for help? If not, please don't offer it.

Unsolicited help can do damage and send wrong signals that you are not happy with his nature and he might feel pressurized in achieving his change.

He is trying by himself ... let him do it in his own time.

Every now and then, tell him that you are observing some positive change in him. Tell him that he has improved a lot in talking skills. I am sure he would be extremely happy to hear such feedback from you and will try more to improve himself.

 

Agree with Navyar. Listen to him when he talks and join in enthusiastically.Laugh at his jokes and tell a few yourself. don't make him self conscious.

 

Fantastic reply, esp. after reading a lot of IL posts, some of which makes one pull their hair
This is a great reply navyar

 

I don't go with navyar,

I hope in a couple there is no question of help comes .We should be able to understand him or her by their gestures. Before a thought emanates well understood couples act before that. So he need not come forward for her help and ask. Its good akshaya u have understood him better and acting and trying to make him comfortable. Good going girl. Other IL replies might have helped u I guess.....

 

my husband was like that in the beginning, he was so silent i use to get bored at times, then its me who was talking all the time. now he improved alot.if he doesnt talk much then you make him talk.. you can do it. first i think you need to make him feel comfortable its not that you are making him uncomfortable but when you talk you need to assure him that its okay to talk,tell him its only me talk something.and other side you can ask him lot of questions i hope he doesnt get angry/upset like some men do. when you keep asking this and that he will try to explain,talk about that eventually he will try to improve.

 

Liked ur reply....