Why not be silent when he says that instead of pleading him ? If he is ought to do it will your pleading change his mind . Men are scared of strong women . Now you keep silent and carry on with your work . He wants reaction from you and he knows how to do it . It is fear tactics . Be strong girl . Let him bark all he wants . Just face it when it comes . Why waste time now thinking about it now ? Just tell him that you want to work on future so ask him to help you find a job .