How you can really get into my mind and answer like an elder sister?? Next time when someone ask me favors, which I feel no. I will imagine throwing null pointer exception!! Boom. "It is fine to say no to a genuine request from those you don't know well enough. They will find another option. People always do." I failed to understand or realise it. My thought was it harmless maybe she tried her close friends, what's wrong in helping. But such people give hard lessons. Making me a complete different person. To many people I may give a feeling of tough person. I think it's the part of growing up I believe. I'm writing a rule book for myself, code of conduct for my peace and my home peace. I don't do playdates at home anymore stopped a year back. Rain or shine only outdoors or indoor play area. I stopped helping around with not so known persons. One lesson learnt not to bring other's kids without prior commitment. Again my only question is how can they ask me favor, without consideration?