How to handle a cyber pervert husband?

Hi ChocyGal,
You said it , he is a pervert. He can be a good father , son, uncle but an below average DH.
There is nothing wrong with you dear. He must be doing this even before marriage , its an addiction, he could be married to the hottest girl but will still surf ****, have his fun.
Men who develop such exotic tastes are not able to connect with real life partners and end up frustrating both. It could also be that they lack in this area so make it up by watching the screen and making the spouse feel inadequate.
Maybe they are inadequate themselves.
Counselling can help. But no man will own it that he has problems in this field , he rather blame the spouse for being unattractive etc.

Now the real issue is to keep your kids away from his fav sites if they use the same computer.