How To Deal With Insensitive Pils

mimi77 · Aug 9, 2018

mimi77 said: ↑

Hi Nakshatra, my inlaws have come but they have never initiated the discussion regarding my BIL and cosis's behaviour.....Upon my initiation she was all in praises about them....She again started comparing my cosis and me .....she is so very unpredictable that I became a total fool by trying to help her out.......Each time she proves that she is much smarter than me.....She probably has the divide and rule policy....In my cosis's absence ,despite she creating so much of a problem my MIL keeps praising her only to create some sort of jealousy in me against my cosis......I realise its better to keep a very minimal abd formal relation with them
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She is simply beyond my understanding

mimi77 · Aug 9, 2018

Topaz49 said: ↑

Perhaps the best thing is not to get involved; just do the best you can. Focus on your life.
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True

Topaz49 · Aug 9, 2018

mimi77 said: ↑

True
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“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.”

Topaz49 · Aug 9, 2018

Mimi, all I can say in your case is -
“God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”