How does Facebook irritate and create problems in your life?

Delete the account!!

 

Give him your password and tell him to do anything he wants with it.

 

I don't feel FB is that big to fight with....make a couple account

 

angelvoice,
It shows the immaturity of both hubby and wife, if silly things like FB posts can cause issues. Both H and W need to behave mature.

 

You guys actually have the time to FB, "project a image" and worry about it Naaahhhice

 

Dear OP,

Can't pretend as if FB doesn't affect our personal relations. Yes, it does among the family. Not much with friends as long as we are in our limits.

Just like in real life how we and our kids are closer to mother side, not to father side relatives. This pattern can be seen on FB too. I have a bunch of niece and nephew connected on FB. I try to be nice both sides. But. because my mil hates me (her son doesn't handover his finances to her, not my fault, I don't even know how much my husband make , her daughters (sil) hate me. Now it's third generation ( niece, nephew) also dislike me because my husband is more successful than their fathers ( Sils' husbands). So, it's a chain reaction.

When I wish ( actually my sister also wishes my husband side kids, but they don't bother to reciprocate) on their birthdays, they just ignore us while they acknowledge the wishes from their dad's side. So, it's just a mind game to show that they don't care me and my side ppl.

Then my sister came down with a plan. She created family group and only my side relatives are members , so we interact (sharing family pics, jokes, birthday wishes etc.) in that group, and no one else know what's going on in the group. Because FB doesn't notify about the posting of a group to non members. Basically it's private a group and you can have as many as you want, one for close friends, one for mom side, one for husband side, one for dad side.

Divide and play (rule) win the game. I am practical, I don't want to un friend husband side folks or delete account. These days if we don't have a FB account ppl assume we are not social. So, deleting is not a solution as per my personal opinion. Not every one has to agree, All Ils are entitled to have their own opinion, right ?

 

I must admit, I have a fb account to keep in touch worldwide, I am not a big user, once or 2 times a week if so.
My husband is adamantly against it and does not want to have an account, he looks at mine if I have something to show him. However I cannot see it running anyones lifes? I hardly post on it, but my friends a lot, I do not think that makes them any more social than me.