Hi, This is one great forum and so i m posting my problem here. My husband scolds me, gets irritated on me when there is his brothers wife at our place or when we go there, he does it on purpose and there is a sparkle on her face whenever he does it. My H does it on purpose to please and she gets the thrill out of it. It does not end here even though nobody is sitting on the sofa and my H is sitting on one of the dinning table chair doing nothing his bhabi comes and sits next to him doing nothing since the lunch/breakfast is long over. She takes every opportunity to sit next to him, showing me she has more command over him. I m married for 7 years and talking about this in private with my H didnt give me any solution. Talking to my in-laws wont help since they think these two are just very close. But i hate the fact that she is trying to dominate me whenever we meet them.... Do you think i can directly ask my H why is he doing this when she is there next time he shouts at me. Its not just her he does this even in front of his friends wife. :drowning and just for information i m working in one of top product company in the world and i m an engineer and his bhabi has studied till 10+2 it seems. Right now i m pregnant and i want to stop this and i want to stand up for myself. I know better late than never. Any tips ladies.