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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by divyakotla, Jul 31, 2013.

  1. divyakotla

    divyakotla New IL'ite

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    Hello Ladies, i am very glad to share this that i got divorce from my f**king DH.

    :)

    I would like to start a fresh life, and have no plan to marry any other. But how can i survive here without having a men support?

    any suggestions would be appreciated.:bonk

    Thanks,
    DIVs
     
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  2. JustAnotherMom

    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    Instant coffee, Instant food, Instant Divorce.. :)

    Oh, not to mention, now you don't even have to cheat on Husband :)... Yeeeee:)
     
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  3. katsbis

    katsbis Senior IL'ite

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    u dont need men for support...do u? it is men who need us to support them n their family as a wife n as a daughter in law....time flies doing a thankless job for them...
     
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    breeze01 Platinum IL'ite

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    you are a free bird ,don't worry about not having men support. you came here all the way till now you can handle other things by yourselves. first try to figure out what you need to do. then take two days off from everything and then start planning on everything.

    if you are not working and you plan to work then start finding a job, you got your friends group then start hanging out with them..
     
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  5. zipzipzoomzoom

    zipzipzoomzoom Gold IL'ite

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    Start by praying to God, and asking him to search your heart and purify it. We are all human beings on a journey, and the imperfections and impurities in our heart create unpleasant experiences for us.


    God created this Universe, and God created Men and Women. Turn your focus towards God, and look at him as your Heavenly Father, or Your Best Friend. And it can be God in any form, whether it is Lord Krishna (who was personified as a Heavenly Son of Yasoda, a Heavenly Lover of Radha, a Heavenly friend of Arjun), or Sai Ram of Shirdi, a gentle soul who realized that God is in all of us, or Jesus Christ, who reached this high level of consciousness, whatever your heart feels.

    When you get negative thoughts like this, ask God to purify your heart. Negative thoughts are always attacking us, and we need to ask God for help.

    God is working to bring the right people into your life. He is bringing a Handsome, Good-Natured, High-Earning, Fun-Loving Husband into your life you will make you his Queen.
     
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    Mommyagain Silver IL'ite

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    Zipzipzoomzoom, very thoughtful message for a possible troll.

    OP, If you are genuine, good luck for your future.
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    Steve does this every other day :)
    (Sorry sir not to pick on u, just a casual remark. Hope u dont take it too seriously. Knowing u, u wont)
     
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    shantana Platinum IL'ite

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    wellsaid justanothermom!!! good for u divyakotla, now since u're 'divorced' u can visit other forum.
     
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    Iamagoodgirl Platinum IL'ite

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    well,goodluck for future.
     
  10. flowerlady

    flowerlady IL Hall of Fame

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    One can survive without men ,they are not oxygen!
    Better not look for support as many will come forward ,married and unmarried to 'support' you, beware.
     
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