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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by ivlakshmi, Dec 5, 2011.

  1. ivlakshmi

    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi Friends,
    After my divorce i have deleted my old FB accounts/orkut and created new ones..thez dayz i am getting crap emails from a guy in orkut saying tht he is my friend and tht i hav taken his number.. I hav replied his emails like 4 times..
    I doubt it is my ex i am not sure of this..(as we hardly chatted online due to his avoidance)
    Is thr a way to track from where I am getting emails as my ex stays abroad?
    should I reply thoz emails again or not..? Pls suggest me..this is something worrying me thez days. On the other hand their parents are bad mouthing about me.
     
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  2. spuppala

    spuppala Gold IL'ite

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    Just ignore the crap..Now that if you really want to get back to your ex,do consider and debug..Else leave it..
     
  3. sarajara

    sarajara Gold IL'ite

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    Its very immature to reply to anonymous mails. I think you are in a very confused state and still thinking of your ex. Its very hard forget such relations , but its very much required for you to go ahead in your life.

    Hence ignore all the past and also ignore the anonymous emails. If you find them very annoying and disturbing you , then lodge a complaint with the police and they would handle it.

    Just be cool and think of yourself , your goals in life and only your future! All the Best!
     
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    ars Platinum IL'ite

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    chandy939 Silver IL'ite

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    If its bothering you so much...delete the account! Inform ONLY the ones concerned about your change of email.You don't have to justify this action to anyone!
     
  6. archana2008

    archana2008 Gold IL'ite

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    You can mark that email as SPAM and bingo you will not get any of his emails. Dont reply anymore to any anonymous emails. Good Luck!
     
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  7. mansimahi

    mansimahi Gold IL'ite

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    Dont talk / email to strangers or unknown random people on any social networking websites.... it is asking for trouble especially in a emotionally vulnerable state you are in currently.

    Ignore this person....block him...and dont accept any random friend requests.

    Dont put up any more personal information on orkut until you are sure you are rid of this person.

    If it really bothers you that it could be your ex , you can find the location of where the email came from through the IP address found in the headers of the email. Google search can tell you how to find the IP and location.
     
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  8. vibhaRam

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    Just don't bother :coffee. Either you report the e-mail as Spam or
    Delete your account and create a new one which doesn't take much of your time as you too know or
    Block his email, if you have any options as such !

    You shouldn't have replied him in the first place !
     
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    Uttaraa Platinum IL'ite

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    Chill ! You have replied out of curiosity and no BIG crime committed ..relax. Just ignore him and if you find it hard, the safest option - block his id (I guess there should be a way).

    If your ex-in-laws are still bad mouthing you, you are remarkable which means they just can't get you out of their system and thoughts :mrgreen:. It is their problem, not yours. Only the ones who are guilty and confused linger in the past looking for answers but I bet you are someone who is bold and smart enough to look at the bright future ahead of you ..:thumbsup

    Lakshmi, don't be scared. You have not done anything wrong and no one is gonna harm you. Be brave ! Be careful next time.
     
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  10. omnam

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    Hi Lakshmi,

    Dont get confused like this. I guess you are expecting some miracle to happen and your ex to come back and have peaceful life with you. Thats why you are trying to mix your past with this email. Forget your ex.

    Regarding this email....might be your old friend only messaging you and palying pranks with you... or might be one of the bakwas email we usually get the day we open new email account. Just one of those.

    Dont waste your time thinking on this email. Mark as spam. Again if that guy write something more than normal pranksters you can think of looking for IP and all.

    Make your present life good ...think of better future.
     

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