Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Vedhavalli, Sep 16, 2019.
Therez also a soln to the problem if u have read it completely.
Don't answer the phone until it's a convenient time. It's not like your MIL can show up in person to bang on your door.
Oh pls!!! Silly for you can be serious for some
If I don't attend calls, she would keep calling until I answer. One day I was driving she called 10 times. Then called dh said,"your wife has no respect for me being elder I'm calling her, is she a CEO so busy". Then dh told she is driving. She kept quiet then.
She checks on us with multiple social media, if dh or me online.
I left a promising career to be with my child.
No one can force you to do anything in life if you dont want to do it.. you are a grown woman with your own mind, a no means no, no need to give long explanations..
Thanks for the bold words. Once I switched off my phone. She cries for everything, people think she is soft
In general I'm perceived as bold courageous., But my mil has toxic , energy draining personality, who will cast negativity in subtle manner, only the victim can see it. Rest people think she is demigoddess. She is a devil in saree.
Last 4 weeks, I did that.
2 consecutive weekends we went out, 1 weekend we invited our friends, other weekend we went to friends place. Yet she calls , though it's her midnight. She wants to show how lovely mom, she is to the world. Reality she damn cares.
I have lived with them, you can see my earlier threads. Every 4-6 months they spend time here, where I'm the full time care taker.
Living with them is a torture, living away from them is another kind of torture.
I totally understand that living with them is mental agony if one doesn't like DIL.
I'm venting my mind, to you all as my sisters.