I am not a very good writer but was accomodating various thoughts from long about life. My life is very different from present day people who live independently and have lots of goals to achieve. I am the youngest Dil in my joint family. Had gone through various sufferings of anger and depression. But the things that I learned during this 7 year journey of my married life is I am going to share today... 1. Marriage makes us mature enough to face the world but having children makes us responsible enough to handle the world. 2. Patience, sacrifice and trust are the building blocks of any marriage. 3. The things that our parents used to say during our childhood and we always ignored them are very useful lessons that if someone is able to learn can help to go smooth in life. 4. An open mind to accept other persons ego and not to lose our real self is difficult to do but once achieved it gives us peace of mind. 5. If one has to work for some other whom he/she don't like then take that work as god's work and keep doing your karma. Good karma can only give you a better life. Don't go to change them else it will change you for worse. 6. Give all your love to kids and never shout on them. I did it but felt it's not right. Now trying to improve on it. They are the most innocent creation of God that we have to mould to make them better person but with love. 7. Give respect to elders no matter how much you like them or not. Their blessings will increase your score of good karma that can be helpful for your bright future. 8. If someone ask for something then give it to them without getting worried of how important or costly it is. As we all came on earth to pay back our loans. It may be a part of that loan that you have to pay. 9. Husband and wife lives together to make the home that should be made with love. Don't spoil this for the need of privacy. Someone may need you more than you need your privacy. 10. Last but not least love each other trust each other and don't give the secrets of your family to any other. There are many persons who have much more experience of married life. I request all to share your thoughts and experiences about this. Newly married can also share what they started learning in this relationship. Hope to see many good learnings from all of you. Thank you for giving your time.