dont know its an appropriate topic to be discussed here.. if its not please remove it. i hope that the discussion will be solution based for the sexual problems in marriage along with improving knowledge. as the topic suggests sex as in marriage life (only in marriage to be discussed here) is coherent between a man and woman...women seems to be more emotional about it and men are not so.. (dont know..got to be explained). as ive read that women are stereotypically more emotional and men are steriotypically angrier. anyway, its known that men are not emotionally expressive.. nor they wud comprehend the emotions of oppotite sex as i see some of the topics related to sex starvation in marriage..how **** affects sex in marriage, etc are results of men's basic nature? or sex is more habitual for men and women. for eg., if a couple exercise more sex in the earlier time of marriage tend to keep up good sexual life later too? i wud relate this topic in my life as that i dont hav any complaints about my sex life but i always hv felt that it needs some betterment here and there. and as am in earlier stage of my marriage i cud improve it for later periods of marriage also if its habitual. also, the related threads created curiosity to know things and also a lot of questins arised such as how often havin sex in marriage is healthy(mentally) to put it well, how often is considered normal? and yes, **** is involved in our sex life. but we both watch together and enjoy. its not a concern sofar.. is it bad for a couple to watch it together that they will lose interest later?