We are happily married for last 9 years. Since about 6 months, my husband is behaving strangely. He asks me to dress sexily, with low cut blouses, sexy nighties, etc. He asks me to mingle freely with other men, friends of his or mine. He is asking me to think modern and behave in a care-free manner. He doesn't harass me but loves me very much. Except for this behavior, he is very gentle, honest, caring and loving. He says his love toward me grows when he sees me talking to other men. I am not able to understand this behavior. Since about a month, one of his friends started visiting our home and spending more time with us. I also began enjoying his company. Of late, I started getting physically attracted to him, since he looks better than my husband dearest. I dont know if he has the same feelings towards me. As a conservative Indian married woman, I feel this is bad. But I also remember my husband's words that his love increases when he sees me talking with other men. Now I am in a dilemma whether to take this forward or not. I am also close friends with the other man's wife. Please help me figure out the best way forward.