married since 2 years , initially everything was fine, for one year i adjusted with everything i could but when pani sar se upar chad gaya i started answering her back. you know new bahus are not expected to answer back to there saas even if the bahu is right. now after two years we fight all the time, she starts taunting for the mistakes like if even a speck of dirt is found after sweeping or if some day the dough is a bit loose or if the papad remains slightly uncooked on one side or if the potatoes are a bit over cooked. and million othr things i mean come on, these are the mistakes which can happen to any one, infact i seen her doing the same mistakes many times . i try not to do them, but they happens accidentally.my husband is very supportive and understands but because we are in joint family he cant do much to this matter. sometimes he did spoke out for me but my MIL got so angry on him and gave emotional dose of "has a 2 year old relationship become more important to you than a 25 year old relationship? and cant you see your moms pain etc" what do i do?this is my first post in this site, looking forward for some advice..