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Cool Winds

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by satchitananda, Feb 20, 2019.

  1. satchitananda

    satchitananda Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    The nights are warm - I am being polite to the weather here without telling people how the weather is really treating me or calling it names!

    A night owl in the best of times, I twist and turn (jump, sit up and turn more appropriate) for quite a while. I turn on the air conditioner unwillingly - too much electricity and not exactly eco friendly - in the hope of getting some sleep. But sleep is a tough customer. Promise her the wrath of hell's fires, she won't come. Give her the luxury of chill air, she still will not come. I keep awake desperately trying to call out to Nidra Rani. It is almost 4 am. In that time, some images of college days come back. It starts from the words 'never say never' popping up in my mind. I think of getting up and hammering away on my keyboard before I forget what it was I wanted to write. So I run the topic a few more times in my mind before the said evasive Nidra whatever comes knocking at my eyelids. So here it is.

    I had written a long time ago, so long ago that the search function does not throw up the title in IL (or on Google). I had described there

    Many decades ago, when I was doing my Std. X, I wanted to appear for the NCERT Scholarship Examination. The application forms had to be submitted at a local college, not far from my house. I went straight from my school in school uniform to the college . Not surprisingly, I was the centre of unwanted attraction on the campus. I wished I could sink into the ground and vanish. It was so upsetting, I vowed I would never study in that college. I spent the next 7 years there.

    Coming to my memories of this college. Those were the days of very strict segregation between young people of a 'certain impressionable age' by gender. Our classes were clearly divided - one half for the girls, the other half for the boys. Of course, our's was a more conservative college compared to some of the well-renowned colleges in the city. Let us say it was a 'kakoo-bai' college. That was the term used to describe people of a very traditional, conservative mindset. Girls talking to boys or vice versa was not a very common thing - rather it was frowned upon. The general scene would be of the girl on one side of the corridor and the boy on the other, the width of the corridor separating them. The students named this the 'cool winds distance'. (The name of the college has been literally translated :p Those knowing Marathi may guess which college this was .... ). I was told by a neighbour who had gone to this college 20 years before me that in her days if a boy was seen talking to a girl, the peon would descend on them like a ton of bricks on a trolley with a stick in hand.

    Of course, the 'winds' of change swept through our college even during those 7 years and once we entered B.Sc to study Microbiology (which was a very coveted subject then and was only taught at this college), it was a much smaller group (compared to 120 or so in 'Junior' college) and fraternization was more accepted. One such pair has turned into a fairly high profile couple in the political arena today.

    Why did I come up with this topic? Search me? I have forgotten between last night and this morning. But I know I wanted to write about this. So I did.

    P.S. Oh yes, now I remember. In its own peculiar way my thoughts run into a knotty mess and I unraveled this one. I was remembering the days when I used to bike home after classes at around 8.30/9 pm and the roads were not very highly populated. Mom would always be anxious. One of my classmates lived near our house and he used to attend these classes too. We used to bike back together (purusha tonai :smile:). Later on another classmate developed a crush on him and he was named pal-in-law. :tongueout: Even upto the time mom was aware of her surroundings, she would get hyper if I stayed out late. She would tell me 'kaalam kattu kaduku' (times are bad). I was wondering whether those times were bad or these. Now we travel alone late into the night in cabs. Then it would be scary coming back home on a bike late in the evenings. I don't think anything has changed except the population and technology, despite which there are no guarantees.

    Thoughts of late evenings on the road then and now, the 'purusha tonai', pals in law etc. brought back the 'cool winds' distance back to mind.
     
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  2. Gauri03

    Gauri03 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Lol! Been forever since I heard the term kakubai. This college of yours is not the one close to the Ayurveda Rasashala by any chance? Just before a place called 'Marathi for tap' stop? If so I kinda agree with the characterization. :smile:

    Give that restless brain a break from thinking. Find a boring old tome on a dry subject and you will be yawning before you turn the first page. Nothing conjures sleep faster than reaching for a book in the middle of the night!
     
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    satchitananda Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Spot on, Gauri! :D I'll certainly try that remedy, Gauri. Only I must start around 7 pm so I can be out by 10 or so!!!
     
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    Really try what Gouri suggested. Read the most boring book or borrow a book from your husband which has complicated medical terminology. Or some slokas book or if possible watch the most boring T. V. Programme (Parliament programmes are ideal but they do not come at night time).
    Pick up your choice.
    Syamala
     
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    Dear HRH (Blame it on @Amica) Satchi,

    I was in Pune from 1988 to 1992 Inside the University of Pune campus working for Center for Development of Advanced Computing. I was 34 years old when I started working for C-DAC. I used to find the students in the University of Pune very modern and freely mixing with the opposite gender. I always used to wonder why people in Mumbai consider Pune as a very conservative society when Pune appears to be modern with cosmopolitan community. I didn't realize such conservative colleges existed in Pune. Cool winds distance?

    When I studied undergrad in 1969 (Tamil Nadu), there were 100 boys and 4 girls in our class and they were seated on the side of the class the opposite side of the entrance. They have easy access to their seats without catcalls from the boys. Still they used to come to the classes late and stand outside until the Lecturers come in. I was a designated neutral boy in the class to exchange notes with because one of the girls studied in the class from our town. I also used to wonder why all girls decide not to come to the class together.

    Coming back to your sleep, I found out that there is a chilling period before all of us get sleep. During this period, if we resist sleep due to some interesting activity, the brain is instructed to stay alert preventing it from sleeping. The lesson I have learned is not to resist sleep and going to bed early really helps this process.

    Viswa
     
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    Will do, Shyamala. Will have to keep practicing till it works.
     
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    Ouch Viswa! How much more leg pulling. They are almost falling out of their sockets! Life was so complicated in the past with this unnatural segregation which only made the curiosity and 'teasing' that much worse. That was a similar experience going to the college to hand in my NCERT examination form in school uniform with everyone staring, passing comments ..... Early college days are a very unpleasant phase of life in that regard.
     
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    Dear Satchi,

    :roflmao:Perhaps, I can mail you https://www.amazon.com/Nuclear-Evolution-Discovery-Rainbow-Body/dp/0916438090 by Christopher Hills. The book has over 1,000 pages to read and you will be sound asleep after a few pages everyday for the next year or so. :thinking:
     
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    Viswa, I finished reading 4 books in one week! This brain has to be continuously kept occupied to keep it out of trouble. Last night I tried star gazing at around 2 pm, got a picture of the Venus and Mars and sure enough I was really sleepy after that!

    And thanks for that ref. It certainly sounds very interesting! :)
     
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