Confused. Should I Live With In-laws Or Not?

Since u have positive thinking continue that. Maybe things need not be complicated as . Keep ur minds open . Remember some people are lucky to have inlaws like their own parents. Maybe u r one among them. If they still feel that u people can get into a neutral family then also u can see them often . Don't worry. Good relationship is more important even if not in same house.

 

Hey come on mistake is urs.ur father in law already told u both to live in seperate house but still u both r there. Ur house mindset will b different and there mind set will b different..now a days parents like to live separately for few years after becoming to old they will come and stay with u ..at that time u treat them well and b together dear. Now u can go sepeartly and enjoy ur life ...it's time to enjoy not to think too much about parents join family ,grandma words etc. make everything simply, b clam after few months u and ur husband move to some new house or new city.meet ur in laws in weekend and keep ur relationship stable.

First in love marriage u should not tell each and everything to ur family....u and ur husband should talk and decide.

 

God and his mysterious ways ! Most Indian IL's would break their own arm/leg to get a DIL like you, yours don't want to live with you . In any case, your intentions are good so don't think too much or feel sad ! I am sure your grandmother is proud of you for trying to live with the IL's.

 

True ! OP is definitely the Shahrukh khan of DIL's while you and me belong in the shakti kapoor category

 

haha! if we were to categorize the Dil's, I foresee a sudden spike in the villain population, with very few heroes. I see myself as Gabbar Singh/Mugambo, hoooo hahahaha