Hi! This has been bothering me for quite a long time but recent events got me quite agitated.Never said anything as usual but venting and asking here. Here's the thing. My paternal family is quite well off. But whenever they'd come visiting me,they'll bring finest gifts for H and kids but cheap knock offs like Chinese cosmetics etc. for me. This time too,themselves draped in the finest silks my mom and SIL ,brought for me a cheap roadside saree. I have a strong feeling that it is done delibrately to upset and berate me andto convey me my (emotional) worth in the family but somehow it is very hard to accept your own family doing such a crappy thing to you. Yes my SIL doesn't like me but we maintain a no conflict diplomatic relationship. Yes,my mother since childhood has favoured my brother over me. He has always been the recipient of expensive gifts and I had to be satisfied with the ordinary fare.Questions were not allowed.