During my marriage my In laws were supposed to give certain amount of gold jewellery. So before marriage my MIL took us to some jewellery shops , so we all selected and ordered it . Casually my parents enquired my MIL about my jewellery if it got delivered or not . For which she replied yes and only bangles were left. After 2 months When me and my parents went to the same shop again for purchasing some other jewellery , the shop owner asked us why did we cancell the previous order . We where very confused. We never told them to cancel any order. In front of everyone my mil ordered it. So we where under assumption that they already received the jewellery from the shop. Later my father called my inlaws and asked the same. Then they cooked up some story and said that my FIL dint like the design so we had to cancel which was not convincing at all . We got very angry cos my MIL had forced me to apply leave so we can go for jewellery selection and inspite of calling us and making us select now the whole thing whatever I selected was different. On the day of marriage when I saw those bangles Me and my parents were shocked cos it was some 30 years old design which we hadn’t selected at all. I like jewellery to be trendy and I am little particular about designs. Slowly after marriage got to know that they cancelled that order because of making charge . Main culprit is my MILs brother. He is into gold jewellery business . He made them cancel all the jewellery I selected . And he buys all trendy and good stuff for his wife and kids. But why the hell he spoiled my jewellery ! I get so angry when I think of that incident . I get so angry that they dint value my opinion inspite of asking me to choose. If at all they had worried about making charge why on earth they should call us and ask to select and then not revealing that all the designs we selected was changed. And FYI my MIL shops from GRT and all other big shops . Won’t there be any making charge in such shops! And the amount of gold they kept was not too much that they can save huge amounts of making charge! Because of that I don’t even have some proper gold bangles to wear as my parents purchased gold before marriage and all where bracelets and necklaces . When I confronted the same with my DH he still supports his parents and in turn argues with me. All of a sudden this incident keeps coming to my mind and make me feel worse . I am scared even for future gold purchase because what if my MIL again taker her brothers opinion and spoils my jewellery shopping . Even if I buy jewellery separately with my parents help and without informing DH and inlaws what if they tell me not to buy without taking their opinions . I am worried cos their selection is some age old types and always worried about making charge. I am a person where if I like some design I don’t bother much about other stuffs Except for quality and if it’s within my budget. Please give me some tips for the same !