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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by MumbaiLady, Dec 6, 2011.

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  1. Dec 6, 2011 #11
    MumbaiLady

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    Exactly my fear too. It will be like opening a can of worms. But I am not able to convince my dh.
     
    MumbaiLady, Dec 6, 2011
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    lathakishore

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    i STRONGlY suggest please change the place you are working, be strong dear....while coming to pics,,,for peaceful life go away from them physically, mentally

    with concerns
    latha
     
    lathakishore, Dec 6, 2011
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    awesumneets

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    God is great and He is only the righteous judge ... lets not judge by our standards. Leave him to the wrath of God, He will do you justice.

    God bless you both
     
    awesumneets, Dec 6, 2011
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    1Sandhya

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    yea, cut your losses and make a clean break. go far away and help each other heal. If both of you want it, they cannot do anything to harm you. forget the pics.
     
    1Sandhya, Dec 6, 2011
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    Gaur78

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    Take care !!! Would be glad to see you back with an happy note for us.
     
    Gaur78, Dec 6, 2011
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    MumbaiLady

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    I actually raised this topic to know. What are the pros and cons of this plan of Dh. Mil is never going to believe us.
     
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    MumbaiLady, Dec 6, 2011
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    tashidelek2002

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    Have you talked to a lawyer about how those photos would be used? Perhaps that might be a good avenue to decision making.
     
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    MumbaiLady

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    Good idea. Will let my husband know.
     
    MumbaiLady, Dec 6, 2011
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    Priya16

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    Do you think the wife nor your MIL doesn't know your BIL's life????

    What the ladies can do it him if he chooses his life that way???Wife,if she option may be she would have escaped by now.May be she doesn't have any options,she just stuck there by knowing all these.Wife would know pretty easily if the guy stuck with other relation.

    MIL,what she can do with him??They may be living together,so she had to play by his rules.So,I am not sure on what purpose you are going to use those pictures?Is your BIL afraid of his wife??I don't think so.Does he afraid of mother???
     
    Priya16, Dec 6, 2011
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    bramvi

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    You 'll become even more the bad DIL who seperated the family and now destroying it also !!!!
    I do agree , it is easier said than done when I say 'Ignore'...
     
    bramvi, Dec 6, 2011
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