Here are some of the things After me and hubby will fight she will flaunt her relationship with her husband in front of us. If me and hubby argue she will tend to him like he needs breastfeeding. She’ll give him tea (none for me no milk left for me) Make sure she gives me tea (in front of guests) in the maids cup to show she does all the work. Constantly boast about how many things my brother in laws wife brought with her after marriage. Upto the point it’s Sara’s cupboard, Sara’s washing machine, Sara’s dishrack....these items are named after Sara. Sara’s dressing table, Sara’s bed. Sara doesn’t even live there anymore. If I gift her something, straight away she’ll say she’ll give it to my sister in law. Goes through my purse without permission. Comments on each piece of underwear. Sits outside the bedroom door to listen to what me and my hubby talk about/do/marital relations. Talks to maid in another language gossiping about my mother and me. She thought I didn’t understand. But yeah I heard and understood everything. Can’t tell husband because he never listens or understands and she treats him like dirt.