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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Tryinghard2013, Oct 26, 2019.

  1. Tryinghard2013

    Tryinghard2013 Silver IL'ite

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    Just some of my thoughts that I want to share. I have personally gone through many marital life problems: in-laws, infidelity, lack of support,divorce, remarriage, lack of love, care, mental abuse etc and I read it too on this forum how many women suffer from the same. Some talk that they have lost hope, some talk that they want are depressed and some talk that they want to end their lives. Now just my 2 cents: why do you give so much importance to ppl not worth it? Selfish and uncaring husbands. Be the star of your own life. Love yourself. Take care of yourself. Have a great body. Exercise! Look after your diet. Look after your skin. Here I am not saying to walk out of the marriage and live alone but live your live to the fullest staying in the marriage. Why be dependent on happiness from husband? There are so many other people who value you. Your extended family, siblings, friends and your own parents and kids. There is something called honest love which we all have the capability to figure out. You might have figured out that your in-laws/ husband do not have the honest love for you. And that might never happen. So why wait and expect? Do what is required for them but don’t give your heart and soul to the relationship. Live the best life for the ones who truly live you.Be the heroine of your movie. Be the central character in your life. Make them the supporting cast. Dont make any male character the hero of your movie. Make them play a side role depending on their capability. You be the ⭐️! Love yourself!
     
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    Love this post ! ! I agree with every word of it !
     
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    Wow! What an awesome post! :clap2:
     
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    Just what I wanted to hear today. Thank you for this wonderful post. Agree with every word. That's the way to move forward
     
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