Ok so a very long story short I am a divorcee who is about to get married to another divorcee in a couple of months. And I have an odd problem that is really freaking me out. I have know him for about 7 months now and our marriage has been fixed 3 months from now. In the the past 7 months I have never been on a individual date with him. Like just the two of us. It has always been a group date, with friends or family. In the beginning I thought it was to make sure I am not uncomfortable, given that I am not as outgoing as he is. But now seriously I would like some lone time with him and he just doesn’t seem to need it at all. He always tags people along, even if someone says they are busy he practically forces them to come while my heart would be longing for some lone time. This has gone to the extent that if a plan is made with friends and his sister and all, and for some reason they cancel, the whole dinner gets cancelled and the two of us though we can go don’t go out. Isn’t that odd? I don’t know what bothers me more the fact that we have no lone time or that he doesn’t seem to need it. We do spend hours together on the phone at night talking and all, but for some reason when it comes to spending time with me alone in public he doesn’t at all. I don’t get it, is he scared of his family or that they will say something or is there some bigger problem. I am not against group dates at all infact I like all his friends and all, but you I would like atleast one lone date in exchange to like 20 group date you know. Isn’t this odd? Please help me? I know the first advice that many of you will give me is that talk to him about how you feel and tell him that you want some time to yourself. But you know I can never really do that, my mind things, whats the point is asking a person for something that doesn’t occur to him. And I would lose the whole purpose of it. And mind would hate it. HELP ME PLEASE!!! Is there something I am failing to see? I cant go into a blunder again and with the marriage date fixed I am more scared!!