A Match Not Matched.

I am a big believer in destiny , I feel whom we marry is sort of predetermined to help us learn some karmic lessons . There is a bigger picture unfolding and what we think are bad decisions are actually what our highest selves choose to learn . Some day the dots will connect . All those people whom you might have nearly married or been together with and dint happen , there was no space for them in your life, they were never meant to be.

 

I found beautiful vine-ripened tomatoes in the store and made rasam today. It is to die for. Not going to share after reading this thread.

 

haha.....this made me laugh out loud!!! cant stop laughing!

 

Interesting perspective

 

We need to pin this comment somewhere!

 

Human mind would always think what we don't intend to think. These kind of things happen, it's a small world. You talking to him or not would not have made a difference. You made a decision for yourself which you felt was best back then. How do you know if you would be happy with him today? Maybe you would have felt worse? Life goes on, move on with it

 

Some things in life are like that....
We dont know why it happens and how....
I had an arranged marriage and decided not to see many grooms...
I had mixed feelings like fear of rejections/laziness/lack of interest combined with less enthu to get married.
Anyways i dont regret my decision as such apart from a feeling that my life would have been much better being single coz I could achieve my dream. I always wanted to do my higher studies.