Syamala's feedback made me think. What she says about first comment being on weight is absolutely true. What if people stopped commenting on size completely? Imagine how wonderful life would be. As it is fat people are doomed to wear clothes based on X, XX, XXL, 2X sizes etc. Note, the letter X is used for 'unmentionables' e.g. X-Rated. Which is akin to equating fat/obese to an obscenity! Is it fair, I ask you! Is it fair???