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47th Wedding Anniversary

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jan 24, 2020.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Today is our 47th Wedding Anniversary. Cant believe that we have completed 47yrs. A successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with the same person.

    Rules for a Happy Marriage
    Never both be angry at the same time.
    Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
    If one of you HAS to win an argument, let it be your mate.
    If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
    Never bring up mistakes of the past.
    Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
    Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
    At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life’s partner.
    When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
    It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

    In my married life I have tried to follow the above rules. Whenever my husband gets angry which will be for a genuine reason I keep quiet. I have never tried to argue with him. Till today I have never fought or stopped talkng to him. I have always tried to see the positive side of him. In the earlier days I did not understand him but as the years passed understood him and felt I am blessed to have him as my better half and now feel we are one and not two.

    7 Important things to have and give in your marriage:

    1 LOVE : The special feeling that makes you feel all warm and wonderful.

    2 RESPECT : Treating your spouse as you would like to be treated.

    3 APPRECIATION : To be grateful for all the good things your spouse does for you.

    4 HAPPINESS : The full enjoyment of each moment spent together with a smiling face.
    5 FORGIVENESS: The ability to let things be without anger.

    6 SHARING : The joy of giving without thoughts of receiving.
    7 HONESTY : The


    How time flies , did not know how the years have passed. We started our journey of life in a Chal and today staying in a building with our hard work.Glad God blessed me with a gem of a person

    Today we have compelted 47 years of togethernesswith th eblessings of God and elders. May God bless us and keep us always healthy and happy

    May be we are different from each other ,but we complete each other.

    Real love is not based on romance, candle light dinner and walks along the beach.In fact it is based on Respect, Compromise, Care and Trust.

    .I’ve lived a life that’s full, I travelled with him
    each and ev’ry highway,And more, much more than this. I did it my way.
     
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  2. Amulet

    Amulet IL Hall of Fame

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    hahaha....When Romeo mused about counting*, he was likely thinking “how many times a year?”
    Best wishes to a Guinness record for you both!

    *”how do I love thee, let me count the ways” —
    sonnet #43, Elizabeth B. Browning
     
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    Laks09 Staff Member Finest Post Winner

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    Wish you both a very happy anniversary Viji Aunty. Here is wishing you many more such beautiful years together. You are the couple I idolize. You complement each other very well. I hope someone is taking dhristi for you and uncle today.
     
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    SinghManisha Platinum IL'ite

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    Happy 47th wedding anniversary! It is a blessing to be married to someone you love and respect. I wish you both lots of good health and happiness .
     
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    Happy anniversary !!! Thank you for the tips Vijima.
     
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    sln Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Viji,
    Happy to congratulate you both on your 47th wedding anniversary.
    Thiruvalluvar said "Anbum Aranum Udithathayin Ilvaazhkai
    Panbum Payanum Udaithu.[ If love and virtue in the household reign -this is the life of perfect grace and gain]
    My blessings and prayer for a long and loving life.
    SLN
     
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    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    WISH YOU AND YOUR HUBBY MANY MORE YEARS OF TOGETHERNESS, LOVE , PROSPERITY AND GOOD HEALTH.
     
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    Dear Viji amma and uncle,

    I wish you both the heartiest congratulations and many more years of togetherness and good health. I admire you so much and seeking your blessings from you on your special day.

    Love,
    Vani
     
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    Dear Viji madam,
    A very happy wedding anniversary. I wish both of you good health, happiness and many more years of togetherness.
    Syamala
     
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    Thanks dear
     

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