What Do You Think?

I would not care about sharing of pics of how heavily it rained in her area but sharing details about personal problems with her husband ( and details of miscarriage ) is a bit unprofessional in my opinion . These are details to be shared with a friend not with one’s boss . So you are not unreasonable in getting annoyed at this. Most likely it is a case of a woman suffering from verbal diarrhea and nothing else.
Different people have different norms about how much they share. The only time I discuss health issues / family issues with the boss is when I need time off from work . But not too
many details are included.
It doesn’t hurt to be aware of what’s going on . Specially now that your husband does not discuss her with you. Be aware but not too obsessed about this.

 

My experience with women in mine n dh's life is that they overshare in these situations-
one, when they want to build a relationship with you or
two, they are already comfortable with n doesn't feel threatened or
Three, they are frustrated n any listening ears will work
It can all be either just a good old friendship or they want a sexual/ emotional relationship.
Their intentions can be anything but as the other person, 'we' need to be clear about where we need them to stand.

Calling you by her name - that would annoy me to a whole another level n my dh would have witnessed a thaandav.

No matter what, if the friendship gets beyond my comfort level, i would want him to do something about it. He may not be able to control her, but he can definitely control his actions right ?

Reduce the amount of replies, no need to reply for everything right away. That will slowly reduce her messages too.

He can easily say he's busy with his own family n don't get into details about what he does with his family or life.

If she's that much of a close friend, invite her n her hubby home for a festival or anything. Introduce yourself.

After that, if it's still out of control, start to reply to her msgs from your hubbys phone, 'rain photos looks lovely'.
If it's a normal friendship, it shouldn't bother your hubby.

Tell him he better make right choices as it doesn't take too long for a woman to find a man to 'just chat' with, after all it's only about rain, weather n everything under it.

 

It's a big alarm according to me. That lady is into your husband and he is too. I too have worked with men in my company but never discussed how i bled during periods or miscarriage. These signs are that their chemistry between them is developed and is crossing the limits. Throw the hot water and take action. Your husband has stopped talking to you about her bcz he needs peace at home, simple. Sorry OP please become a devil and confront him on this.

 

But if your H has not sent even one inappropriate msg, then appreciate him on his face for his honesty. Tell him on his face that you believe in him and give him a hig and treat him well. That will boost his image towards you and he will be more leaned towards keeping it in tact. Good luck OP.

 

Id trust him but be careful it doesn’t take long for simple chats and oversharing and becoming friends to developing feelings for one another. Relationship should be professional and nothing else.

I’d be really annoyed if he called me her name. Does your husband work with others and messages others like this from his workplace?